What does a no-fault divorce mean in Pennsylvania?

No Fault

What does a no-fault divorce mean? In Pennsylvania, we have a 90 day mutual consent no fault divorce option. If both spouses mutually agree (consent) that the marriage is “irretrievably broken”, a divorce can be obtained regardless of fault.  An “irretrievable breakdown” is a fancy way to simply state that a marriage cannot be saved, or that it is hopeless. This legal option eliminates the need for one spouse to formally blame the other spouse of misconduct in court.  Allowing families to keep their private information and “dirty laundry” out of court and out of the public record is a benefit to couples that choose to divorce peacefully.

Simple Path

Procedurally, your divorce will take longer than 90 days, but the filing requirements and fees are less expensive if you choose this route.  Eliminating the public accusations and he-said-she-said can bridge the divide and help create the  a path to a simple, cost effective divorce. A qualified divorce mediator can help you focus on navigating the issues of divorce and move forward peacefully, avoiding the guilt and shame that may surface publically during a trial. If a healthy divorce sounds appealing to you, give divorce mediation a try!

If you would like more information about a healthy divorce, contact Dawn Clement at Dawn@ClementMediation.com for more information or to set up a consultation.

Dawn Clement
Attorney & Mediator
http://www.HealthyDivorcePA.com

 

What does a no-fault divorce mean in Pennsylvania?

Thinking about getting a divorce in Pennsylvania?

If you are thinking about getting a divorce, first consider divorce mediation.  A neutral and qualified mediator can help you and your spouse divide the property and parenting responsibilities peacefully and respectfully.

A mediated divorce is an amicable, simple and efficient process. Pennsylvania has a Mutual Consent No-Fault Divorce option which allows couples to obtain a divorce regardless of marital fault. The benefit to choosing this type of divorce is that you are able to move forward after a 90 day waiting period, without the need of one spouse to show misconduct through the court system. Time and money are precious resources, especially during a divorce, and the mediated pathway is an efficient and less expensive method of obtaining a divorce.

You have probably heard from your family and friends that the divorce process is devastating. This does not have to be the case for your family! Couples using mediation tend to end the marriage in a better position both financially and emotionally than those that take their battle into the court room. Once you and your spouse decide that it is time for a divorce, and if you both agree, consider scheduling a consultation with a mediator before you dive into the litigation process!

If you would like more information about a healthy divorce, contact Dawn Clement at Dawn@ClementMediation.com to set up a consultation.

Dawn Clement
Attorney & Mediator
http://www.HealthyDivorcePA.com

Thinking about getting a divorce in Pennsylvania?

When is a good time to start mediation for divorce or custody?

Mediation is quite flexible, it can begin at any time. Some couples turn to mediation to resolve family issues before they get hostile, by working out a parenting schedule or division of property at the beginning of separation. Sitting with a mediator to discuss issues beforehand can help you communicate better, before the actual divorce process begins.

BEFORE

My recommendation is to try mediating your divorce and custody issues FIRST! Couples can mediate to divide property and create parenting plans before heading down the litigation path.  Because mediation is a cost effective and amicable process, most families will benefit from trying mediation first, before rushing to court.  You can settle all or most of your disagreements this way, rather than letting a judge decide the outcome.

DURING

If you are currently in the court system and the long and painful process is at a standstill or money is running low, you may also benefit from mediation.  Typically the arguing and fighting in court will run its course. Both of you may become tired of the fighting and desire a peaceful resolution for you and your family. The court system often fails families, but there is always time to turn towards a new peaceful direction.

AFTER

After the divorce, families often turn to mediation to work out and maintain parenting, custody and child support plans peacefully. Instead of running to court to ask the judge how often you can see your children, consider sitting down with a mediator and work out a plan peacefully.  Whatever stage you are in, a trained and qualified mediator can help you work out a plan that is right for you and your family!

If you would like more information about a healthy divorce, contact Dawn Clement at Dawn@ClementMediation.com to set up a consultation.

Dawn clement
Attorney & Mediator
http://www.HealthyDivorcePA.com
When is a good time to start mediation for divorce or custody?

Q: Why Choose to Mediate? A: It’s simply smarter.

My first blog post highlighted why I left litigation to become a mediator. Today, I want to share with you why I think couples should try to mediate their divorce before rushing to court.

SAVE MONEY

If you were to google “How much does divorce cost?” You would probably see a range of prices from $15,000 to $50,000 or more. Divorce is expensive, but litigating a divorce will cost you big time. Lengthy court battles and attorney’s fees will affect your cash flow, which can be a burden on already financially strapped families.  Mediation can cost less than $5,000, quite a big savings for you and your family if you choose to work it out with a mediator.

SAVE TIME

Going to court takes time, scheduling court dates, attorney schedules and fighting can extend a divorce for years. A mediated divorce can be resolved in just a few sessions with a mediator, quickly and efficiently.

CHILD CENTERED

 Custody trials can be very hard on families, children are often used as pawns between the two fighting spouses. Courts often decide custody schedules that they feel are best for your family, leaving both parents to try to conform to a plan that just doesn’t work. Parents know what is best for your children, not a third party that has no clue what your family needs to function efficiently. Why leave such an important issue for a judge to decide? You and your spouse know your finances, work and school schedules the better than an outsider.

CONFIDENTIAL  

Mediation sessions are conducted in my private office, documents and conversations are confidential. On the other hand, if you choose to fight it out in court, your case becomes public, court employees, and other folks will hear your private family issues. No one wants to air their dirty laundry in court, where it becomes fodder for gossip and rumors. Protecting your reputation and your children’s problems from the community is a smart choice.

AMICABLE  

Couples that mediate tend to honor their agreements and end the relationship peacefully.  It’s OK if you and your spouse don’t really get along perfectly right now, you can still mediate your divorce.  Having a conversation about financial and parenting issues with your spouse and a trained mediator can help further facilitate communication now and even after the divorce is final.

Not every case can be mediated, if you are considering divorce please contact a qualified mediator for a consultation before you rush to court!

If you would like more information about a healthy divorce, contact Dawn to set up a consultation at Dawn@ClementMediation.com

Dawn Clement
Attorney and Mediator

http://www.HealthyDivorcePA.com

Q: Why Choose to Mediate? A: It’s simply smarter.